February 15, 2002
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Put E. on the plane... felt weird... a bit sad but also very relaxed...
It's weird seeing how things are always different and stuff... I mean like break up some (e.g. voice & anole) break up in big bang crash... E. and I silently after having talked a lot about it about how we are friends but not lovers anymore about how we haven't been for so long... about how we wanna stay best of friends forever and staying together could give a big bang where nothing survives so how splitting up is the best thing to do... not that we didn't cry... not that we aren't sad but we both feel it is OK like this... we need to move on with our own lives and stay friends....
ANd If you don't believe in love anymore... go read about HomerTheBraves' parents...
Comments (9)
Yes moving on is good...some of my closest and dearest friends are old lovers...you two are both special people...your times together on what ever level are a blessing.
Thank you for the card and Birthday wishes. So cool to get Birthday greetings from across the globe!
((((((((maggy)))))))))
what a wonderful attittude the two of you must have! it shows great maturity and a strong compassion towards each other, even if it's not romantic! it's wonderful to hear that two people can split apart and still be friends!
Yeshhh... E. thinks too that we have made a good decision... knows it.... transformation... why are so many people afraid of it?
Now its weekend, I hope you've got some really nice things to do. Treat yourself somehow! Tom
Banshee: I guess they are afraid of losing themselves and of discovering things they don't want to know and of giving up things that are maybe not 100% but cozy and comfy at the time
i admire both of you for your courage and honesty towards each other. especially because i know that i did not act in such a mature way in the past and that the result was desatrous. out of fear and out of laziness i guess. ontrospection takes a lot of energy ...
Yes, moving on is the best!! Even though it is hard in some ways. Hope you have a great day.
...then there are those of us who have the same revelation and stay together...with varying degrees of success.
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